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Wednesday, 8 October 2008

My Thoughts

Browsing through a blogger friend's page, I got interested to post a comment on her recent entry of the following matters. It took me a while to define each. Just a few thoughts to share with all ...

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Just a few thoughts from me:

LOVE: An undefined feeling that only you can feel, sometimes you feel on top of the world with it, sometimes you feel like s**t! For sure, you DON'T need a reason to love someone coz all you want is to be with him/her all the time.
BEST FRIEND: Someone you think of, not all the time, but when you are in need, or want to share something, he/she will be the first person you wanna see/contact. Someone you trust and he/she trusts you too. You two depend your lives on one another.

SOUL MATE: This is a greater version of Best Friend. For me, a soul mate is someone whom I have the same thoughts with. Someone who ends my sentence, or someone who shares the same (dirty) jokes that nobody else can tell/get. In other words, SOUL MATES read each other's minds without even talking about it.

AS THE NEXT BEST THING: Personally, I pity those who are the NEXT BEST THING for anyone. In other words, this person is a 'second choice', which means, there is somebody else BETTER than him/her. It would really be very hurting for being the NEXT BEST THING...

Comment posted by Suzila A. October 8, 2008 10:59 AM

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What do you think people ...??? Share with us your opinion. Would love to see your views on these too :-)

9 comments:

Ousizch said...

Suzila154, Your blog is very nice and you had good content!
Stayed to built a blog that was useful for visitor and always thought to publish content that was great. Heeee, just support you…………………

Hope u have a great day!

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Suzila A said...

Gee, thanks Ousizch!! Just a simple page I got here really ... Love sharing my thoughts and days with all.

You made my day dude! Will sure visit your page too :)

Princess Gizmo said...

Woo wow woo!! The psychiatrist is in da house! Hehehe :p may I add? When you find a best friend who is later become your soulmate & that person is happened to be a guy. It's a sign he's the one for you ;) but if he's taken already, or you are w/ someone already then..Accept the fate. Atu yg sadih tu :(

I don't believe solely in LOVE only because to me, I need these 3 (Best friend, Soul mate & Love) to be w/ someone that you truly madly deeply need..Alhamdullilah I found my other half from becoming friend - best friend - soulmate - then I fell in love w/ him..*Aaaahhh* Hehehe..Well just want to share from my own experience :)

1 more thing if you're thinking the other 2nd person is better than your current other half, you have to analyse, why do you choose the first person? List down the pros & cons. Then compare. Try to think w/ an open mind not think w/ your heart. This is human, especially the female species like us tend to think using our 'heart'..Which make me sad :(

So when you have someone, cherish them as long as you can, as long as they never hurt you physically, mentally or verbally. If he/she's not romantic, teach him/her slowly. If he/she's not perfect, embrace his/her perfect sides. If he/she's seems to forget about you, remind them always. If you he/she's no longer the same person, ask nicely. If you think you're no longer...feel anything for him/her, give chance. If you think you fall w/ other person, bear on your mind, why must you fall in love again? If you think nothing will work out, pray Istikharah. Insya-Allah, you'll find who's the one for you :)

Hope this will give some directions to anyone who need it. It just a humble talk from someone who experienced it either directly or indirectly. :)

Well Suzi, I'm surprise at the result! Hehehe didn't expect to 'talk' this much. So I'm going to copy this comment on my blog too!

ANIH said...

hye darls,,
thanx for ur comments arh my blog pasal topic yg me bagi ah..

d idea of kuarkan topic atu comes suddenly from apa yg happened hari2ani.. so better aku minta opinion dari ur guys jua pasal ani. Dapat jua kitani or yang lain tahu apa erti yang banar nya LOve and such ani.

payah me xplain darls eyh.. I tink u noe wat i mean :D

and once again thanx.. nti ku post arh blog ku comments u ah. really appreciate everybody's punya pendapat.. :)

Suzila A said...

Princess .. Wah! Thanks darl. We talked about this on our first meet and I still remember when you said "Being LOVED is better than having TO LOVE a person".

Thanks for the comment. It's really helpful, especially the following:

"So when you have someone, cherish them as long as you can, as long as they never hurt you physically, mentally or verbally. If he/she's not romantic, teach him/her slowly. If he/she's not perfect, embrace his/her perfect sides. If he/she's seems to forget about you, remind them always. If you he/she's no longer the same person, ask nicely. If you think you're no longer...feel anything for him/her, give chance. If you think you fall w/ other person, bear on your mind, why must you fall in love again? If you think nothing will work out, pray Istikharah. Insya-Allah, you'll find who's the one for you :)"

THAT really helps darl .. Really apply to me personally huhu ...

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! *hugs*

Suzila A said...

Anih .. No problem. In fact, I'm sorry for 'indirectly copying' your topic. Just that, when I did my comment to your entry, I spent quite a while to really share my thoughts there. So I guess, why not share it with all :)

Thanks for being cool about it ya. You may post my comment on your page, why not. After all, it's meant to be shared :)

Be happy ya! Cheers! ;)

ANIH said...

Darls.. neva mind eyh lagi me suka. At least ada yang suka dat topic and yg most mahal nya feed back nya bah..

Really appreciate u darls.. nah u sdh post topic ah.. ada feed back kan.. cool kali ah.. make it more fun ,interesting to share it with all kan... mcm forum ada jua..

eh... dr cinta u ah. hehe. ;)

Suzila A said...

Hmmm .. Dr Cinta?? *tap fingers on keyboard* =P

PS: Izz .. Let me hear your say about this topic ;)

(Everybody! Izz is MY Dr Cinta) ;)

izz said...

woooohooo....erkkk....hemmm...
sis, i don hav much time to comment rite now..will comment bout it later kay...;D
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